Insecurity leads to security
There are many thoughts that swim in my mind because of insecurity. I started pondering what is insecurity ? I could not get answers as I have not contemplated much on this word. But I know there are various reasons why I do feel insecure about something or the other in my life. I knew there would be people who has this feeling of insecurity at some point of time and for few of them they live their life with insecurity which engulfs their life almost every minute and every moment. When one of my adventurous friend in my workplace told me to write an article about insecurity. I first thundered when I listened the word Insecurity ? This word sounds familiar to me! Yes, ofcourse it does sound familiar and I know I have been through many insecure times in my life till date. When this friend of mine told me to write about it ..I have made up my mind to seriously give valid thoughts on how this insecurity is rooted in a human brain. Why ? How ? when ? I did think and got lost what could be the reasons for it and how one can eliminate insecurity from their mind and life.
Any emotion that we go through is directly proportional to the surroundings we live in. The people we are surrounded by, the work place, relationships between friends and foes.
A human is on a constant search for the unknown and ungrappling things that he cannot hold it dearly and what if he holds it dearly which would be diminished or vanished in few seconds. Thus, a man is more known to imagine the impossible, imagine the most beautiful, paint a rosy picture or see through rose-tinted glasses where the whole world appears truly magical. But in reality, the world is very ugly and cruel. At somepoint of his life. He knows he is cheating on himself believing life is beautiful and magical. He gets tired, cries, torments by over analysing and removes the rose-tinted glasses and sees the world which is very blurry, vague and unclear. When he was dormant imagining all the best things in life ...he thought things would be easy to handle just like how easy it would be to advise some one for good .. Practically, if you want your things or dreams to be fulfilled ..you should muster a lot of courage, get charge of your own responsibilities and should have fought the battle well.
you don't know how difficult it is to go through a hell of a situation until you put your own shoes in it. While facing some best life challenges, which would change your life for the better has to be handled in a very fragile manner and has to be dealt in an impeccable way. Any battle, challenge, wish, dream would be easy if you put your heart in it. You should love what you are doing. what if you don't love what you are doing but still you are supposed to do it ..then start loving it. There is nothing that is impossible. All our priorities and policies matter.
But Why do people feel insecure? Listed below are the most common problems of insecurity
@Usually, most of us feel insecure when we don't have a trusted person to talk to, share our deepest feelings with, when you don't have some one to rely on when you are in the depths of despair.
@When some one doesn't like what they are doing. Their career, tasks, work. Be it anything. When their heart wanders some where else and cannot put their focus on the things they do .There arouses some kind of a guilt and sits inside their body shooting out splashes of eerieness. Which takes away one's sanity and makes them on a wild run to the oblivion.
@They knew they are exceptionally good at something. They believe in themselves that they can become the best singer, director, designer, artist, writers and can take the world on a wild fire of bountiful imagination. They know if they are given a chance they can prove that they have the most flamboyant personality which is very addicting in a polished way.
@Some people have this greatest yearning for luxury and comforts. They want to build a lavish abode and travel around the world in 80 days. Want to travel to the most darkest, brightest, lovely, bizarre and the best locations in the world. But they know, they need to make a lot of money to make all their dreams come true.
Just like the above mentioned cases, where some one envisions his life to be better than the real. They get deprived when their dreams smash on earth when they are not even making a little effort to make them real. we must know "Rome is not built in a day". To make the best effort we have to fabricate the best innate personality with in one-self. Construct our mind and heart to face the best with lots of zest and zeal. When we love what we are doing truly. When you listen to your heart speak and your heart says follow your hobby as your career. Then you would rather try that as an option. what if you click well and mesmerise your folks with your exceptional ability to do your hobby which can very well turned as your career.
If you really want to drive away the insecurity that is residing in your body and soul. You must do what you want to do. Act smart and quick. Be impulsive. Spontaneous and immaculate at what ever you are doing. We must be naturally loyal which makes us royal to what ever we do. Cultivate the habit of bounding to something or a person in the most faithful way and then there is no need of this feeling of insecurity.
But inorder to make all our dreams to reality. There would be a mob of people who would shoot us down and echo that we cannot fulfill our desires. Don't give a damn to them, instead, feel ignited by their words. we must create a reservoir of optimism and positivity which are the ions that are absorbed by each and every nerve of our body. WE must combat with the malicious people, bear with the ill-hearted people. Patience and time heals all. Never in a haste to end up or settle for anything less than we are worth having for. Never yearn for that some one who doesn't understand you despite of your best efforts to make them understand how wonderful you are. Smile away all the worries that are queued up in your line. It straights out everything right ! Wake up, walk with your head held up ! Show up and show off you are the best ever ! you are the best that ever happened to you ! Every emotion is temporary experience it completely and let it go. You would turn old and wise !! Some times feelings of resentment and insecurity thrives us to do and face the world the best way ! When winter comes can be spring be far behind. A man has to find solace and haven in every right thing he do ..then why wouldn't life be a best journey ? It would certainly be ? I promise !
Life's best fruits are yet to reap ! All the emotions and the situations you go through foster and strengthen the fruit of your future :D
Any emotion that we go through is directly proportional to the surroundings we live in. The people we are surrounded by, the work place, relationships between friends and foes.
A human is on a constant search for the unknown and ungrappling things that he cannot hold it dearly and what if he holds it dearly which would be diminished or vanished in few seconds. Thus, a man is more known to imagine the impossible, imagine the most beautiful, paint a rosy picture or see through rose-tinted glasses where the whole world appears truly magical. But in reality, the world is very ugly and cruel. At somepoint of his life. He knows he is cheating on himself believing life is beautiful and magical. He gets tired, cries, torments by over analysing and removes the rose-tinted glasses and sees the world which is very blurry, vague and unclear. When he was dormant imagining all the best things in life ...he thought things would be easy to handle just like how easy it would be to advise some one for good .. Practically, if you want your things or dreams to be fulfilled ..you should muster a lot of courage, get charge of your own responsibilities and should have fought the battle well.
you don't know how difficult it is to go through a hell of a situation until you put your own shoes in it. While facing some best life challenges, which would change your life for the better has to be handled in a very fragile manner and has to be dealt in an impeccable way. Any battle, challenge, wish, dream would be easy if you put your heart in it. You should love what you are doing. what if you don't love what you are doing but still you are supposed to do it ..then start loving it. There is nothing that is impossible. All our priorities and policies matter.
But Why do people feel insecure? Listed below are the most common problems of insecurity
@Usually, most of us feel insecure when we don't have a trusted person to talk to, share our deepest feelings with, when you don't have some one to rely on when you are in the depths of despair.
@When some one doesn't like what they are doing. Their career, tasks, work. Be it anything. When their heart wanders some where else and cannot put their focus on the things they do .There arouses some kind of a guilt and sits inside their body shooting out splashes of eerieness. Which takes away one's sanity and makes them on a wild run to the oblivion.
@They knew they are exceptionally good at something. They believe in themselves that they can become the best singer, director, designer, artist, writers and can take the world on a wild fire of bountiful imagination. They know if they are given a chance they can prove that they have the most flamboyant personality which is very addicting in a polished way.
@Some people have this greatest yearning for luxury and comforts. They want to build a lavish abode and travel around the world in 80 days. Want to travel to the most darkest, brightest, lovely, bizarre and the best locations in the world. But they know, they need to make a lot of money to make all their dreams come true.
Just like the above mentioned cases, where some one envisions his life to be better than the real. They get deprived when their dreams smash on earth when they are not even making a little effort to make them real. we must know "Rome is not built in a day". To make the best effort we have to fabricate the best innate personality with in one-self. Construct our mind and heart to face the best with lots of zest and zeal. When we love what we are doing truly. When you listen to your heart speak and your heart says follow your hobby as your career. Then you would rather try that as an option. what if you click well and mesmerise your folks with your exceptional ability to do your hobby which can very well turned as your career.
If you really want to drive away the insecurity that is residing in your body and soul. You must do what you want to do. Act smart and quick. Be impulsive. Spontaneous and immaculate at what ever you are doing. We must be naturally loyal which makes us royal to what ever we do. Cultivate the habit of bounding to something or a person in the most faithful way and then there is no need of this feeling of insecurity.
But inorder to make all our dreams to reality. There would be a mob of people who would shoot us down and echo that we cannot fulfill our desires. Don't give a damn to them, instead, feel ignited by their words. we must create a reservoir of optimism and positivity which are the ions that are absorbed by each and every nerve of our body. WE must combat with the malicious people, bear with the ill-hearted people. Patience and time heals all. Never in a haste to end up or settle for anything less than we are worth having for. Never yearn for that some one who doesn't understand you despite of your best efforts to make them understand how wonderful you are. Smile away all the worries that are queued up in your line. It straights out everything right ! Wake up, walk with your head held up ! Show up and show off you are the best ever ! you are the best that ever happened to you ! Every emotion is temporary experience it completely and let it go. You would turn old and wise !! Some times feelings of resentment and insecurity thrives us to do and face the world the best way ! When winter comes can be spring be far behind. A man has to find solace and haven in every right thing he do ..then why wouldn't life be a best journey ? It would certainly be ? I promise !
Life's best fruits are yet to reap ! All the emotions and the situations you go through foster and strengthen the fruit of your future :D
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