I am studying in an university nay not in an elementary school or a high school any more...this is what every student in my class is pondering and wondering about...college or an university is a place where students hail from various places and are of different cultures...this is where we get to know their culture and habitat....and a cross cultural exchange takes place....the college I m studying is not a women's college..it's a co-educational institution where both the guys and the girls study.....people come to the college to study, learn and to edutain themselves at the same time mingling up with people and learning to live with a group of people in harmony and peace and to learn to face the often difficile circumstances we may come across in near future....ppl!..we are not living in a B.C century where the boys and the girls have a certain line that they are not supposed to talk to each other...and..this may lead to relationships or some thing else..the society may think ill of them...in the current century...that trace of a line of boys and girls is slowly disappearing and vanishing...reason...the plain Reason here is...they know how to behave with each other in their limits and there is nothing wrong in doing friendship with the opposite gender...its no more like we say it in the dialy pledge in the school assembly...All Indians are my brothers and sisters....they say we are Friends....there are many classes of friends.....Jus Friends, Best Friends, Boy friends, Girl friends, acquaintances and companions....the world is getting globalised I guess various teenagers and young adults are well-matured enough to defend themselves and they enjoy their own privacy...you know..here comes one of our class teacher saying....Girls are not supposed to talk to guys at all in the college surroundings....Girls who talk to guys are unfair..mean...and do not know how to live in a society...its some thing bad and the society marks you as a bad person...you are not supposed to have any kind of acquaintances and friendship with the opposite gender and its all the girl...girl ....girl ...thingy...talk to girls...do not be independent too....here she expresses her vibes...a girl should not be independent too..she cannot do things on her own....she has to rely on the rest of the girls to do or get her things done...In one line I can understand her view on girls is..they must not be dominant...independent....are we from an ancient civilization....where still there is a major difference between these two genders....and..something uncommon, unusual, abnormal that people tend to be apprehensive when talks come between them....both the genders are given the equal rights and there is understanding...friendship...intelligence...and...a lot of similarities and the friendship of guys and girls can be fun, rolicking and friendly when they are with in limits and can have exuberant time...."no body can rule you or exploit you with out your concern"..so we must be self concious about it....and our beloved madam has passed ORDERS to the Girls of my class...the conclusion I give is Dont Ever dare to talk to guys!!....People thought she is mean and something wrong with her...why is she that overconscious and worried about this fact.....where as the other teachers are okay with it.....and encourage us you must have good rapport and communication between both these sects...which the ancient early man has derived in to two species the male and the female.....hmm...the one more thing she has brought out of her mind..a guy in our class has got thin long strands of hair....it almost covers his forehead...she has cautioned him...MR.ROll no.17..."tomorrow while you come to the online lab for the feedback and declaration signature...I must see your hair neatly cut and oiled....half of your time gets wasted on combing your hair..."...at once the pupil in the class were alarmed at madam's gesture....is it a military school that people should dress in a particular way...when there is a code of conduct as per the rules of my college has a right of wearing a civil dress code and there is no particular code for the hairstyle....my god!!...this is college and students are free to be what ever they like with out violating the rules....they have freedom...but few of this kind of teachers....morons(though...actually i dont want to refer to)....are changing the rules and compressing the socialising environment..and..putting restrictions which will make the people probe to behave notoriously and grow curious about unnecessary things......which would be conflicting!!....
Dreams Surreal becomes Real
Walking amidst the corn fields her eyes gazing at the sky mind harbouring the same thoughts like a cliche her heart seemed like a frost hard enough to breathe collocation and callous that surrendered like a shield stifled for life she had always dreamt off now she sees gravity everywhere things in her hand but every thing falling down, uncontrollably vainly grappling over everything toppled over Eyes of she gandered on to the horizon thougths that weighed huge those agonizing thoughts sullenly and suddenly rationalised to her new life those long distances that she walked all the while aimlessly and tiredly gave her a new way a path of greenery emerged before her that laid like a green carpet with springs and blossoms and with the colourful butterflies a world full of hue and paint looked like the world she imagined it all looked so surreal but it is real like the words she remembered of poetry when she was small "when winter comes can spr...
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we should all give a big hand for our beloved teacher who cared so much about her students.
2nd why is madam not bothered about about a couple of girls who are in a relation(no personal blame on any1).why is she worried about us who are not performing well.After-all it doesn't mean that every1 who screw their academics are love crazed. Madam was so worried about our academics...... usually that is our parents @ the end of semister...
And so far....for the thing about "Boy and Girl friendship"......no such-thing exists.There is Only FRIENDSHIP that exits no genders in it..........
And as per the hair rules .....I think madam doesn't like people who play with hair styles......1st there way karthik last sem with his hair Straightened and all,now Akash Solanky and guess what Ramu.... I think madam was angry with U 2 .... because u got ur head shaved this sem........
May be madam has a Practical reason behind her behavior.....May be she is telling things out of her own flashback .........
May be some tamil payye has crashed her hopes during her college days........